Monday, January 23

My Pursuit of Happiness

If there's anything I learned living on the third rock from the sun is that most things don't go the way that one imagined. In fact if a plan does go as scheduled, it's a bigger shock.

The last two years taught me that a business either makes your passion grow more or squashes the dream. Kind of like moving in with your partner or friend - either you make a compromise or you don't. It's simple as that.

Vending made me move away from what I loved - traditional and retro desserts. People wanted cakes that looked like Disney or Sesame Street characters. That's not what I want to do or can do. Cakes are not my strength and I do not want to appear on Cake Wrecks. What most people don't understand is that some bakers and pastry chefs are not all cake decorators.

Side Note:

I fucking hate writing on goddamn cakes. While I'm on the subject, stop requesting long ass messages on small cakes. It's a 9" cake. It cannot hold the Canterbury Tales. Buy a card!!!



Not mine. My writing isn't nearly as crisp.


I truly loved meeting people and introducing my desserts to them. I worked to keep The Pastry Prophet alive. My friends encouraged me to buy a store front. That's another thing: a storefront costs money. Lots and lots of money, risk, employees, etc.

Since I'm not a character in a Sims game, I cannot say "mother lode" and money will magically appear in my bank account.

I wish!

Frankly I felt stuck. I worked so hard to put myself through school, worked for minimal wage with chefs who all thought they were Colette Peters, sacrificed and carefully avoided putting myself into debt. Still I had very little to show. Also I did not see a potential of things improving in the future.

I spent too much time in the past wishing and hoping complacently for things to go my way. Also swimming against the current again hoping for improvement.

So I decided to make the change. Life is incredibly brief and I'm too old care what people think about my decisions. I officially closed my business. I am only taking requests from friends, friends of friends, and family.

I want to write, travel, and enjoy life more. Something I missed out while selling my business. Then I'm getting back into shape and improving my health. I refuse to believe that I need to give up delicious food.

That's my focus for this new chapter in my life (if I can use such a hackneyed phrase):

  1. Do the things that I love: baking and sharing desserts that I love to make 
  2. Travel and dine at non-tourist destinations. Suggestions are appreciated.
  3. Develop new recipes. All things considered, I still love to eat.
  4. Embrace a healthy lifestyle. Under this administration, I cannot afford to get sick. 
  5. Write ... write ... write ....!!!!

Tuesday, January 10

Winter (Squash) Is Coming



Soup. In my opinion it’s best when the weather drops under 30°F (-1°C). So this Monday it was at a bloody low 20°F (-6°C)and this summer baby whipped out ingredients to make Curried Red Lentil & Winter Squash Soup.

The history of this soup comes from a co-op that I worked at a few years back. It was during a time where I really didn’t know where I sat at in the culinary world. It was fun. The store was filled with all types of people [hippies, hipsters, stay-at-home moms and dads, 9 to 5ers, conservative republicans, and Wiccans]. In this one place in the universe everyone got along.

So watching my co-worker and friend make this soup I eventually memorized a few recipes. I’m no genius, this soup is incredibly wholesome, rich, and easy to make. Also it’s vegan and gluten free.
  • 1 small Winter Squash (I prefer butternut squash)
  • 1 cup Red Lentils
  • ½ chopped Onions (Spanish, Yellow, or White)
  • 2 - 3 chopped Carrots
  • 1 quart Vegetable Broth (preferably from scratch, but store-bought is okay too)
  • 1 can (13.5 fl oz) coconut milk (regular and not the light version. Make sure it's unsweetened!)
  • 2 Tbsp. Canola Oil
  • Fresh Cilantro (a tablespoon worth)
  • 1 tsp. Curry Powder
  • 1 tsp. Cumin
  • 1 tsp. Coriander
  • Salt to taste ( I recommend salting at the end. You do it once, you will soon learn why. YOU'VE BEEN WARNED)
  1. Cut, gut, and slice the squash into chunks. Pan spray a tray and place the squash on the tray skin up. 
  2. Bake for 30-40 minutes at 350°F or (176°C) until very soft.
  3. When cooled (don’t burn your hands), scoop out the flesh into a bowl for later.
  4. Place the canola oil in a big pot on a medium low temperature. When the oil is hot (NOT SMOKING) add the onions and carrots and sauté until tender.
    It doesn't matter if the cuts are professional. The carrots and onions are going to get pulverized anyway.


  5. Add the Red Lentils and stir until they are coated with the remnants of oil.
    Uncooked Red Lentils

  6. Add the Vegetable Broth and cook the mixture until the Red Lentils are soft and cooked.
  7. Include the remaining ingredients and mix occasionally for 45 to 60 minutes. I usually place a lid on the pot and clean up my prepping mess at this point.
  8. When done take an immersion blender or food processor and go to town until smooth. Please not that I like my soup on the chunkier side. Don’t worry if you want it completely smooth. If you do, strain it through a China Cap.
  9. Salt to taste.
  10. Pour it into a bowl, add some cilantro (or parsley) to garnish, and enjoy.
    Time to eat!

 If you make it, let me know what you think!

Monday, January 2

Obligatory Statement of New Year's Resolution

2016 for me has been a year of learning.

As I mentioned in a previous post, I started vending at a farmer's market. I learned that people like my baking and I would do even better if I had a actual location. After the election it seems nothing is a sure bet though.

I'm hesitant because I don't even own a house yet. Do I even want to stay in Philadelphia? A brick and mortar place means I'm sticking around. So many questions, but I do know what I want in 2017. 

What I want to do this year:

  1. Get back to my mission statement. My focus is retro desserts and I gone way off in my attempt to please everyone. 
  2. Go out more. I stupidly felt that going to nice restaurants meant going with a companion. Considering that I'm chronically single waiting to go to nice restaurants meant I rarely went nice restaurants. Well that's stupid. I should go to nice restaurants when I fucking want to.
  3. Getting back in shape. Less snacking, more moving.
  4. Travel. Oh I missed traveling. I met terrific people this year, but the open road is calling me.
    4a.  Major travel goal: Malta ... of course if I'm THAT close to Italy it would be rude not to visit that beautiful country.
    4b. Definitely going to visit because it's awesome: Montreal 375th Anniversary 
At least I learned that people really appreciate my baking and services.  At this age and watching so much Kitchen Nightmares and Bar Rescue I don't know if I want to use my savings for a bakery. The two things Philadelphia doesn't need any more of are bakeries and banks.

There's a lot to consider and do in the new year.


Friday, September 2

What I Did This Summer or My Farmer's Market Adventures

Like I said in my previous post, there isn't really an instruction book on how to open a food business. So I started vending and I learned a lot. Yes, mistakes were made. Of course they were not devastating or I wouldn't be here blogging. I'd probably would be crying in my car with the lights off.

The Positives:


The Upper Merion Farmers Market - During my search of vending options, I came across this weekly market. Many other markets I searched in my area were booked it seemed 6 months prior. UMFM welcomes both weekly, bi-weekly, and occasional vendors.

I made way too much for the Memorial Day weekend. I thought this was a "light" selection


My fellow vendors were all from the 100 mile radius of the area. I saw what they were selling and how they marketed their product. I realized I had to packaging my items to catch the eye of my customers.

The first day was the Saturday of the Memorial Day Weekend. I thought I was making the minimum. Oh heavens was I wrong. The one thing I did learn is to listen to my customers. The patrons included a good number of senior citizens. They would look and say they could not eat sugar because of diabetes or other health issues. So guess what I placed on the menu next time?

Sugar-free peanut butter chocolate chip cookies.
Made with stiva.


The extremely helpful managers and volunteers answered every one of my stupid questions and helping me setup my tent. Also the other vendors sold some great stuff!

Coffee. My lifeblood.


Also dogs are welcomed.

Awwwwwww!!!!


The Cons:


I decided rather quickly that I wanted to participate in a farmers' market. Much like my standard, I decided that I was going to do this and I'm doing it now! In some cases, I don't like researching too much or else I get a case of the nerves.

I've previously shopped in other markets so I kind of knew what to expect, but I've never attended this one in particular. The only research available was the listing on the website. I did not want to sell anything that conflicted with my neighboring vendors.

At my first market day I brought a big selection - regular items (baked goods made with eggs and butter), gluten free, and vegan. Now my menu has regular items, fewer vegan, no gluten free, and child-friendly sweets.

At this point my season is nearly over and I am finally getting the handle of what to make, how much to make, and other factors such as how temperature affects shopping attendance. One big revelation is that kid-friendly items attract children and it makes parents hard to say no.

Cue evil laughter.

It's the end of the summer and it's time to consider the fall menu. Oh the ideas that I have.

Thursday, June 23

Dodging Cluelessness Like Neo in the Matrix

When I look back on the past 10 years of my life, I’m slightly amused. The farmers’ market is going well. The township where it is located has definitely impressed me. When the time is right to open a storefront it will be in the area. I’m still in a stalemate between my love of writing and baking. At least at this point of my life I know what I do want. Thank goodness because I’m not young and don’t have time to waste.



I mentioned before although there are guides on how to start a business, there isn’t much to avoid the bullshit. A lot of people have misconceptions about how the food business works – even those who are starting a food business. There’s so many rules and regulations to follow to protect the business owner, customer, and if you are a caterer protecting the venue.

Catering is not as easy as creating a Facebook Business page announcing that you are now accepting orders. Also there are limits one can do especially if you are a sole proprietor. Requests such a placing an order for one cupcake and delivering this item 2 miles away at 10:30 at night is of little interest to me.

What people do not understand is that for my business that unless it's for a catering event or vending, I create desserts by order and it has to make me a profit. Therefore I don’t have an inventory items on hand. So I make a batch of cupcakes for order. What do I do with the excess? Without a storefront or café, I cannot offer them available clientele so I’m stuck eating them or giving them away to friends.

That is called a loss, ladies and gentlemen.

I would like to avoid any major losses, please.

I also want to avoid a waste of my time. If I work harder not smarter that’s my problem. If you insist I do it then you are an idiot. I’m sure in hindsight I’ll see a lot I did wrong. So far I’m doing a lot right.

The only person I need to justify my actions to is The Pastry Prophet. Also I look to people who walked the same path to give me sound advice. They know how to avoid culinary minefields and avoid the bureaucratic mumbo jumbo.

Thursday, June 2

Hot Sex in the Summertime

I know people who can eat ice cream for breakfast, lunch, or dinner and every snack in between if left up to their own volition. Personally I like ice cream on rare occasions and only if the good kind (meaning small batches).

So when I got my greedy hands on a chocolate liqueur an Original Bartenders Premium Selection™ called Hot Sex (a large quantity of it and aptly named), my mind instantly went into ice cream mode. Don't judge me. My mind always leads to desserts.

To be honest the weather is starting to scorch and I need to keep my ice cream skills sharp.

I hope the person who thought of this name received a bonus.

The issue with making ice cream with alcohol is that it will not freeze as hard at traditional egg and milk ice cream recipes. But I also did not want to skimp on the Hot Sex.

What made Hot Sex Ice Cream different from a Bailey’s Ice Cream is not only the kick of chocolatey booze, but the nice bite of ginger. So if you want to be technical – the ginger and ginseng herbs are really medicinal.

Your move Starbucks
I really wanted to just eat it straight from the ice maker's bowl




This ice cream elevated the mood of my office mates. Since I need both uppers and downers in legal form I made my version of an Affogato al Caffè. Yes, I know affogato should be made with espresso, but I don’t have one and I’m not using that gross K-Cup. French Press coffee is much better in my opinion.

So do yourself and your friends and family a favor and make this ice cream. Sure it is not as easy as grabbing a pint as your market, but this stuff is yummy. And if you feel like sharing everyone will think you are awesome. The truth is that you have a summer outfit to squeeze into this month.

Makes 2 quarts

  • 2 ½ cups whole milk
  • 1 cup granulated sugar
  • ½ cup granulated sugar
  • 2 cups of heavy cream
  • Pinch sea salt
  • 2 tsp of REAL vanilla (not that McCormick’s crap
  • ½ cup Hot Sex Liqueur
  • 10 large egg yolks (Yes this is a lot. You won't be sorry)
  1. Put your ice cream maker container in the freezer two days before
  2. Combine the heavy cream, vanilla, and vanilla in a separate bowl
  3. Place your egg yolks and ¼ cup of sugar and egg yolks in your mixer and whist until foamy and leaves whisk lines.
  4. Add your ½ of sugar along with the milk in a pot and mix until sugar dissolves. Scald the mixture do not boil.
  5. Temper the eggs mixture to your milk mixture by adding the milk to the eggs a quarter cup at a time. When the mixing bowl feels very warm at the bottom pour that mixture back into the pot. If you rush this step you will end up with scrambled eggs in sweet milk (yuck).
  6. With a wooden spoon cook the combined mixture on medium heat. Once again do not leave your pot unattended or let it boil. Once your custard thickens it should coat the back of your spoon.
  7. Strain your mixture and blended it into the heavy cream, vanilla and Hot Sex mixture.
  8. Place into a container and let it cool down overnight. You can store this mixture in your refrigerator up to 4 days. If you want to rush this step put this mixture in an ice bath.
  9. Churn your ice cream mixture in your ice cream maker according to the manufacturer's instructions.

You do you!

Eat it any way you wish. It’s your ice cream.


Tuesday, April 12

I Know What I'm Doing

I have been a busy bee this year.

A close friend of mine underwent scoliosis surgery, so I helped carry on her online magazine Explore-Philly.com while she healed. I realized that I'm not as young as I would like to think I am and there's something else I noticed about myself. ...

When I was a teen and in my early 20s, there wasn't anything more that I wanted than a social life. Now that I'm older, my idea of a great Friday night is pizza, my Roku, and a bottle of gin.

Don't get me wrong. I had so much fun going to different events and meeting interesting people, but every night I return home exhausted by the time I had to write the story. Also I'm holding down a full time job. Promoting the social media and connecting with people made me realize that I'm nowhere near I expected to be at this point of my life.

I need to buckle down so I eliminated distractions including Facebook (my personal - not business page) and started emailing farmer markets to see if they would accept my wares. Many of the greater Philadelphia area markets are already closed to new members unbeknownst to me.

Finally one market emailed me back and sent me an application. Pending approval from a health department inspection, I'm in to sell pastries next month. 

How exciting and terrifying. I have a menu ready and need to do my cost control. I hate cost control. Is there a computer program or an app for cost control?

I am trying to avoid any potential nightmares. There are many suggestion to shoppers and visitors to Farmers Markets, but nothing out there for first time vendors. As usual I expect to make several catastrophic mistakes, so let the "What Not To Do" list begin with me. Sometimes I think my purpose in my life is to show other people what not to do.